Thursday, October 25, 2012

Bumps #2 (and Angels)


B     M     S
   U       P       #2

  • A student said, "Mrs. Pear has a seed growing in her orange." What??? Apparently a group of third graders have made up a language they call Foodly. When guessing the gender, the boys guessed blueberry and the girls guessed raspberry. Now they ask how my blueberry is doing all the time. 
  • A sweet little girl was looking at a picture on my desk of Brant and me from 5 years ago and she said, "You were pretty when you were young." Ha! Great, just what the 34-year-old first time pregnant gal wants to hear! I laughed pretty hard though. 
  • The kids keep suggesting the name Toby. I gather that it is from some Nickelodeon or Disney show they watch. Tons of them have given me this suggestion. Strange. I like the name Justin, don't they like the Beebs? (No, we haven't decided on any names.)
  • Being overwhelmed and stressed, I have found the following 2 activities each day keeps me sane AND they are good for the baby: 1. upon arrival, instead of the first graders gathering in the library and reading on their own from book boxes, I read stories out loud. It is what I was meant to do. They tell me how much they love the voices, love the books and always leave talking about the books. Once about 30 or 40 kids gather, I switch to the microphone. Several years ago when asked, "If you could do anything for a job, what would it be," my reply was, "Read aloud to kids all day." Gotta cling to it! 2. Making the most of cafeteria duty, (spreading frozen peanut butter, cutting hundreds of salisbury steaks, opening milks, etc. take a toll, yes, this is what I went to college for,)-while waiting for the kinder teachers to pick their kids up, we sing/recite holiday songs and poems together. Right now 5 Little Pumpkins Sitting on a Gate and If You're a Monster and You Know It are the most popular. Get to be silly and have some fun with them.
  • 3rd grade boy, "What happened to Mrs. B's stomach?" Another teacher, "She's going to have a baby." Boy gasps, "OOOooohhh, she's going to have a baby." I guess he's never been around a pregnant lady before!
  • I have some groupies after school while waiting for the second bus round to pick them up. They hug on my belly each day. Today they read books to the baby. Monday we planned our Red Ribbon Week attire, (theme days.) One little girl rested her head on my belly and swirled her finger around my bellybutton over and over for like a minute. I was a little afraid that this might look strange to other adults around, so I told her that she was going to make me fall asleep and she stopped. Sweet kids. 
  • One of the little older ladies that has always worked at my school asked if it seemed like the kids were closer to me this year. I told her yes, definitely. She said it is because they are innocent little angels that can sense what is going on inside me. With all the love I feel from them, I believe it.
  • Another of the sweet older Mexican ladies I work with visited a church/misson while on vacation south of here. She prayed for our baby and brought me a gods eye pin and a ring with Jesus and Mary on it. She was hesitant to give me the ring. Although we have had great talks about religion, family and our beliefs, she told me that she didn't know how I felt about Mary or Catholicism. I told her I believe in Mary, that she is the mother of Jesus, I just don't pray to her. She was relieved and gave me the ring. I have been proud to wear that ring everyday since. It reminds me who is in charge and gives me peace. This is the same lady who told me I had to visit the Oblate priesthood campus last spring, that it has become a refuge and place for her to pray and sort out her thoughts. I finally went to this beautiful place this summer...coincidence? Hmm... She has given me some of the best advice throughout this entire "process/adventure."
  • I miss Brant AND Lacey when they are hunting. This weekend is the last weekend of dove season. I normally go a lot. Shoot a little, then just have fun drinking beer and talking with the guys, but not this year. Gotta rest! Each day of the week, I feel myself get more and more run down. I NEED my weekends to recharge!
Saturday morning lounging with Lacey
Lacey-11months old
  • Charlie likes to take naps with me. There's a nook in between my pregnancy pillow and my body that has become her sweet spot. Someday soon my big belly will take over that resting place!    
                                                 
  • I'm reading that I should feel the baby anytime now. I have felt flutters for a couple of weeks, but I cannot be sure of what it is! It feels more like finger tips to me. It amazes (and sometimes worries) me that the baby is about 9 inches from head to toe, (5 inches from head to rump, according to one of my books,) and that I cannot feel it. I know it's coming!
18 weeks!
Celebrated 18 weeks by going to bed at 7:00 on Thursday!






Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Amanda's Wedding and 17 week update!

We had so much fun at Amanda's wedding. Great times with my very fun and loving family. This baby got his first taste of an incredible band and lots of dancing! My feet STILL hurt! Good times. Great party. Thank you and congratulations, Amanda and Kent!
Rehearsal Dinner Girl Pic

Getting dressed-hair and makeup-with the bridesmaids and flower girl!
The other very happy couple!
Wedding Party

Photo Booth family fun!


Baby Love!

I have had a very busy week at work already. Ready for a day off! Late night of book fair, PTA meeting and Ice Cream Social at school last night. Didn't get home until after 8. Those days wear me out! I have had great volunteers this year, but SO many more meetings, things to remember, teacher training to facilitate, volunteer coordinator training/meetings, technology meetings and doctor appointments. (I'm having issues with my eyes and it's so hard to leave work during the day to see the doctor. Another follow-up tomorrow. No one told me about eye issues during pregnancy!) Each day brings nonstop go-go-go! It does make the days go FAST! I'm so ready for a weekend at home to catch up and rest.
Below is a video I put together VERY quickly this morning for the closed circuit morning announcement show from our school Ice Cream Social last night. It was great to visit with the parents. They all had their side of me being pregnant and how their kids were so excited and told them and when they told them it was a boy. I had fun visiting and telling them all my funny stories about what their kids say! Since I'm not their teacher, it really surprises me how genuinely interested and excited they are. I really do make a difference and am loved at my job!

17 weeks tomorrow! Today I noticed how my belly button is getting pulled. Katie thought is was so strange how "hard, but bouncy" my stomach feels. If you see me, you are welcome to touch my belly without asking! I'm loving it!!!















Note to future self: Remember how you felt October 20, 2012 and many days for that matter... Incredibly stressed out/guilty about not going to in-laws to celebrate husband's birthday. Need time at home. (I feel like such a bad wife. Yes, we did go to a nice dinner at place of his choice on his actual birthday, he got steak and cheesecake, just what he wanted. We had a great date and laughed a lot. Before dinner he opened presents, which included something he needed and something for fun that he really likes.) I did manage to cook dinner every night but Tuesday, late school night, this week. Remember the parent yelling at you in front of everyone in the office about volunteer training, remember the student who went crazy throwing chairs and urinating in the office and being in the line of fire. Remember the teacher you had to report for confidentiality breach and the broken relationship you will now have. Remember being "on" through wedding weekend last week and through book fair, having PTA moms and volunteers in work space every second of the week. Remember issues with kids stealing money from siblings to buy books, stealing junk erasers, difficult conversations with parents. Remember how many phone calls and meetings you had to attend to this week- on campus and off-Web Master, grade level teams, ILT, PTA, doctor and the rushing around to get to it all. Also, my work friend who was a week behind me in her pregnancy lost her baby this week and of course, it effected me. I am STILL spotting, (going on 4 weeks,) and worried about that and the cramping I have in the very low abdomen. So, IF you are a stay-home mother and ever feel disconnected or lonely, please remember that the grass is not greener on the other side. You cannot make everyone happy. You HAVE to take care of yourself and the baby first. Just need some down time and time to make our house home.Just stop and be so thankful for what you have.

Monday, October 8, 2012

Food

I was raised with the notion that you eat to live, not live to eat. We only had real dessert for special occasions, (otherwise we sometimes had canned fruit cocktail. Jen and I made sure the cherries were distributed fairly!) I still consider fruit dessert and save it for last on my plate. Now it is fresh fruit.
The friends and coworkers I eat lunch with always make fun of me about how healthy I eat. I do splurge at home, and definitely when eating out. At work, it is easy to eat healthy because it's not easy to just go get something. I make myself be stuck there with what I have. Sure, people ask if I want anything from _______ (usually fast food,) but I am also a Golden and would rather spend my money elsewhere. (Kind of like dessert- I'd rather spend my calories elsewhere, like potato chips!)
My Dad packed my lunch from first grade until about sixth grade. He always packed a peanut butter and honey sandwich (cut diagonally) and an apple. Sometimes I'd throw in Cheezits or some other snacky food. Even when I began teaching, I packed apples and peanut butter and honey sandwiches for my myself and I'd grab a milk in the cafeteria. When I was a little worried about the thighs, I'd cut it to half a sandwich. I loved those PB&honey sandwiches.
When I was in my late 20's I started eating raw veggies and fruit and some kind of protein for lunch. That has continued and I've now perfected it. (Obviously eating the same thing over and over doesn't bother me.)
Many people say their kids liked what they ate during pregnancy. My secretary, whom I eat with everyday, thinks this baby is going to be so sick of veggies that he'll hate them. I sure hope not! If this baby has any kind of food allergy or aversions the following is why, (remember this is mainly for my reference.)
Each Sunday night I cut up a whole bunch of veggies and fruit and divide them into Tupperware tubs. The following is what I take to school each day. It ends up being a lot of food, but it is REAL food! (I try to avoid packaging.) I've eaten like this for years now.
Breakfast: either good breakfast sandwich Brant makes for me-sprouted seed English muffin, egg and bacon or sausage and a piece of fruit OR an Odwalla bar with a piece of fruit, (usually a banana and usually in the car)
10:00 snack-Greek yogurt with Chia seeds mixed in
Lunch: veggie tub: carrots, bell peppers, broccoli, cucumbers, cherry tomatoes (or some kind of bite-sized tomato) sometimes red peppers or celery
fruit tub: always different, but usually includes berries of some sort (right now it's strawberries, pineapple and mango)
1 boiled egg OR cottage cheese on the veggies OR avacado
Just in case snack-nuts
Car ride home snack: cheese stick and any fruit left over from lunch
(I take two calcium supplements on top of my prenatal vitamin just to make sure about calcium)
Ok, this sounds boring even to me, but it is just fine! I do look forward to hot dinner. Usually for dinner on Monday nights, we have sockeye salmon. Other nights-turkey, fish, chicken, beef of some kind with a veggie and a fruit or two veggies. And NOW I've been eating ice cream! When I go out to eat and on the weekends I tell myself I can eat whatever I want. I do and I don't worry about calories. I think it's working for me. My doctor said, "Sounds good, like the paleo diet," and we chatted about that and how his coworker doctor friend and my husband are into Cross Fit.
Baby Boy, I hope my wonderful secretary is wrong on this one. I hope you like a WIDE variety of foods that are excellent for you! I consider myself very fortunate that my parents taught me to eat well and really enjoy yourself on special occasions. Sharing a special occasion meal means even more that way.
And now that I say that... it's time for some Light Homemade Vanilla Blue Bell! Ha! : )

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Bumps

B   M    S
   U   P
  • While standing at the copy machine today, my friend looks at me from across the office and says "Polly, you are getting SO BIG!" I think that it is so fast that is crazy.
  • I now set my timer for a one hour nap after I get home from work. I can then do a load of laundry and usually make dinner. I really do enjoy making dinner each night, but I am tired.
  • Mom brought some kind of wonderful steak soup AND oatmeal cookies for dinner tonight on her way to choir practice. She knows how tired I am. It was great! (I need to get the soup recipe from Katie!) 
  • My friend who has kids at our school told her kids about the baby today and they congratulated me after school. Later she posted on facebook that her daughter said, "I can't believe Mrs. B is preggers." Her son said, "Yeah, I just thought maybe she had too many mashed potatoes."
  • Brant this morning while feeling my bare belly, "You're a beautiful pregnant woman." I needed that! : )
  • Dr. appointment tomorrow. I have a ton of questions for him, as always. One of them is about my belly being so big so fast, (he might just laugh at me!) I just seem so much bigger than all the other pregnant girls at work who are only a few weeks behind me! 
  • The funniest thing is that the kindergartners seem to be the most observant about my changing bod. All age of kid has asked me what it's going to be. It's been fun all of them too. It surprises me how into it they are!
  • Sweet first grade girl, Isabella: "Mrs. Burris, uh, I notice something familiar about your stomach." Me: "Oh yeah, what is it?" Her: "Well, it's growing and getting bigger." Me: "Why do people's stomach's grow?" Her, slowly: "Uh, well, I think you might be pregnant." As if I didn't know and may need to see a doctor about the situation! 
  • During first grade class one kid says, "Why is your stomach getting big?" Me: "Why do people's stomachs get big?" " Another kid: "Because they eat too much." Me: "That's true, but I've been eating very healthy. What is another reason people's stomachs get bigger?" I heard a few gasps: "You're having a baby!?" I know they have a clue, but somehow they are also truly surprised. So cute.
  • Thuggish kid walking down the hall and stares at me. As we pass each other, his head turns, still looking at me. "Aye, Mees, you look like your pregneent." Gee, thanks, kid. Made me laugh.
  • Looking forward to Amanda's wedding next weekend! Flower girl Lainey and I get to spend the day with the girls getting hair and makeup done. Although, I think we'll both have to break away for a rest.
Update 10-4-12
  • Everything at the doctor looked good. It's so frustrating that they just can't answer all your questions and like my doctor said, "there are a lot of maybes and unknowns, but if you knew, what could you do about it?" Augh.
  • I feel like I've gained a lot of weight (and I'm definitely eating more,) but I've actually LOST a pound since my first OB visit. I'm not worried about weight, just don't want to over do it!
  • 15 weeks today!
  • Next appointment, November 5: chambers of the heart, size, etc. 

Monday, October 1, 2012

Gender Reveal and Catch Up

We shared the gender with our families this weekend. We went to Bellville, to Brant's sister's house to watch our niece's volleyball tournament. We had a nice visit and had the special cupcakes with them on Saturday afternoon. On the way home, we stopped at my mom's house where we met my sister's family and John and Katie, (my brother and sister-in-law,) called in on face time. They were about to bust they were so excited to know. They all made guesses in pink or blue marker and we ate mom's famous lasagna before cupcakes. We almost had them first because they just didn't want to wait, but John and Katie were not ready for us. Jen took some great pictures. We are blessed to have such loving families to have fun sharing good times with. 
I took the day off work today. After last week trying to rest after work, just being so tired all the time, and being out of town all weekend, I had to get caught up on things around the house. I started sweeping at 7 and by 9, I had all the floors done-swept, vacuumed, mopped, kitchen, bathrooms, entry, done! Then onto bathrooms, laundry, sheets. I began organizing closets in preparation for the baby's room, got dressed and went to HEB. By the time I cut all my fruits and veggies for the week and ate lunch, I was wiped out and took a nap with Lacey on the couch. Very successful day. Now I need to read my homework, (on instructional coaching for school.) 

13 weeks, 6 days
Ultrasound Tech: "That is definitely NOT a girl."
I knew I would have to accept and ignore a lot of what people tell you when you're pregnant. I mostly trust what my body tells me, I think I know it pretty well, (yes, this is new to me, but still.) I find it very hard when people tell me I should "take it easy" or not do something, specifically when it comes to my work. If you've never worked in a public school, you don't understand how badly underfunded we are now. We have been cut 2 staff members each of the 4 years I have been at my current school. With the same number of kids, that is a huge lack of adult supervision, especially before and after school. We all have extra duties-more and more each year. Yes, I will do anything to keep this baby safe. However, if I am not where I am supposed to be at work, (down to the minute,) it compromises the safety of someone else's child, and then my job is compromised. It is very hard to "take it easy" working in an elementary school. I keep thinking about all the women who have worked in the fields, hard jobs, etc, had a baby and go straight back out to work. Or about all the kinder and first grade teachers who have done this, even with complications, (I don't consider myself to have "complications," even after last week. After talking to many mothers, I hear that the bleeding is pretty common. Not normal, but can go on to have perfectly normal pregnancies.) I'm already not great at exercising, I gotta move at work as much as I feel is safe! 
Speaking of exercise, Brant is restarting his Cross Fit regimen tonight. I am so proud of him. His work ethic is fantastic. It's one of the many wonderful things about him that made him so attractive to me. Now to get back into those extreme workouts is crazy to me, but great for him! Go Daddy Go!
Salmon, broccoli and fruit for dinner. 
I've been eating more ice cream. Just noticed today they make LIGHT Cookies N Cream Blue Bell!
Off to learn more about my role as an instructional coach!